Readin', Ritin', & Rawkusness

Listening: All the pages that have turned. All the errors left unlearned. Oh, well, I'm the luckiest guy, not the loneliest guy in the world. Not me.

What's my problem? There's simply not enough time in the week.

Right now, I would love to be doing my laundry that has piled up, but I know that if I started it now, I wouldn't be done until well after two in the morning. I would love to be watching the newest episode of "Lost," which is already up online, but there are more important things to be done. What are these important things? I haven't a clue. But here I am blogging away like I haven't done it in weeks. Wait. I haven't done it in weeks.

I know that I've been telling you that I've been working long hours and that I have been too tired to blog, and it's true. The whole working from (I'll be honest here) half past ten in the morning (Okay, I'll really be honest, sometimes eleven) until anywhere from half past ten at night or as late as half past midnight six days a week can be pretty tiring.

When you have one day off, you have to figure out what you want and what you need to do on your days off. Rest is always a priority. I find myself catching up on sleep or just being at rest for a good portion of my day off. Sometimes I'm catching up on shows or movies on my computer. Other times I'm passed out until the middle hours of the afternoon. Cleanliness is always a priority. I end up tidying up my room on my days off. For a while I had a basket of clean laundry hanging out, unfolded for at least a week. For those of you who REALLY know me, you know that this NEVER happens. Yesterday, it all got put away... and now I need to do laundry again. BLASTED!

Every day off, though, I make a point of going out and being social. Two weeks ago, I ended up having dinner with Manni, Mona, and Mona's friend, Adam, at Sel de la Terre. We had originally planned on having dinner at the bar, taking advantage of their sliders which are offered on Mondays and Tuesdays. However, after looking around for seats at the bar, we ended up at one of the tables adjacent to the kitchen. These are really fantastic table where you can see all of the action and you can ask asinine questions like, "Do you all really have to wear gloves ALL of the time?" (Yes, I asked.) We chatted up the chef and it turns out that I fed him when when he was down on Nantucket this past summer. Small world. So he, in turn gave us a few impromptu tastes, and I got a tour of the kitchen. Strangely, the kitchen is equipped with a little Japanese girl who gives massages. Well, I don't think it was her only function, but one of the line cooks was definitely taking advantage of the feature.

Last week, I FINALLY got to go out with Jess and Carlos. We went to Coppa in the South End, and, man, was it good. There were a few surprisingly disappointing charcuterie items, but I was overall very happy with my meal. I mean the menu featured a million things that you can't find anywhere else. There were pig tails and calf brain raviolis (both of which I ordered) in addition to tripe, foie, beef tongue and heart. Probably the tastiest things there weren't on the menu though. It was the waitstaff. Yep. The waitstaff. Our server was kind of a hipster girl with a green and black striped sweater, jeans and black Chuck Taylors. She had a nose hoop and a funky hairstyle. I liked her immediately. Running around the dining room was a skinny Asian chick with a tattoo on her forearm. It was a diagram of a pig with all of the primal cuts outlined. Sexy. Very sexy. Nothing says sexy like a girl with a pig tattooed on her.

It was good to see Jess and Carlos though. So much has happened to them over the past few months that it's good to catch up with them. I gots my fingers crossed for them. They have a plan in the works and I just hope it goes through.

It's funny. Sometimes I feel like I'm running around with my hair on fire, working my ass off, trying to do good work and trying to save enough money to take my year off that I forget why I moved back to Boston. I came back to reclaim my life from exile on the island. I came back to connect with people and be me again. Or, rather, be me again with people who are more like me or who have the same interests as I do. But, lately, I'm slow to return phone calls and e-mails. The only sure shot to get a response from me is to text message me. I don't exist any more or less than I did back when I was working on the island. It's pretty messed up.

Speaking of that, I was offered my old job back. I thought that I had told Chef that I would be taking this job to explore my squinty-eyed tendencies. But, a week ago, he texted me and asked if I was interested in coming back for another season. I politely and respectfully declined and told him that I knew that if we got the band back together, we could do better, more intricate food than we did last year, but I have to see this current project through. I told him that I would consider going back to the island at some point during the summer to play, but not as a full time gig. It was nice to be asked though. I'm sure Chef and I will be in contact for quite some time, and I'm not completely ruling out the idea of going back at any point in time. But, for now, I have to work on the current task at hand.

Anyhow, more about the day off. This past day off, I spent, again, most of my day tidying up my room. I reorganized a few things, put away some laundry and caught up on some fights that took place on Saturday. I walked into Harvard Square to take care of some errands. Originally, I set out to buy Corinne Bailey Rae's new album, "The Sea," which I have been listening to over streaming audio at KCRW.com. However, when I went to Newbury Comics, right next to the CD that I intended on purchasing for $12.88 was a live concert 2 CD set from... wait for it... DAVID BOWIE! It was only $14.99! I sat there and debated it in my head for a little while, but c'mon. It's BOWIE! I had to buy it. I listened to it at home, on my way to work, at work, on my way home from work. It's a quality purchase. Corinne will have to wait for another time.

For dinner, I got together with a girl I met through my friend Mona. I had hung out with her in a small group setting once, and she's been into my restaurant a few times already since we've opened. I told her that I'm free on Mondays. She texted me two Mondays ago and we missed each other, so we made it happen this week.

I've always said, one of the best things in life is getting to know another person, really getting to know them. There's only so much you can learn about a person in a group setting. You get a little bit of backstory and you get to know some of their mannerisms. However, when you get a person one on one, you learn much more. You learn a little bit more about what makes them tick. What's especially exciting is when you think that a person is going to be one way, and they flip it on you. You see more depth and more details. You didn't peg them 100% when you first met them. You saw a glimpse of what they wanted you to see superficially. It's when you take the time that you can see through the translucent layers. It's a wonderful thing.

Needless to say, I had a great dinner getting to know this girl. Four hours flew by. What it all is, I don't know. I'm not sure I really care to know. It was just nice to have a one on one dinner, not only with someone new, but with someone who actually had something cool, insightful and intelligent to say. It's refreshing. For the past two years, I've only had those conversations with a few of the people that I worked with. And I worked with them almost every day (so it failed to be new).

So, that's what my days off have been like. I find myself wishing I had more time to read and write and cause a ruckas, but it's not happening. If my boss hires another cook to work part time, I'll be losing a day's pay a week. I'm not so sure if I'd be happy about that. It's a balance though. Is it worth it to have another day off or not? It's something that I have been thinking a lot about, both on my days off and as I prep the stations. I haven't come up with an answer yet. I'm sure my body and my social life would thank me for the extra day of rest, but would my plans to go abroad? That's a question for another night.